About Rev. D

Rev. Dayna E. VanHauen — Officiant With Heart
Every love story is unique—and so is the journey that brought me here.
Hello! I am Rev. Dayna VanHauen. Born in 1980 in Enid, Oklahoma, I spent my early years surrounded by the breathtaking landscapes of Utah. Life eventually brought me full circle, returning to Oklahoma in 2005 to care for family—a move that would unexpectedly shape my future in the most beautiful way.
The following year, while helping a loved one plan her wedding, we hit a few bumps in the road. In that moment, I realized how important it is to have someone who truly listens, understands, and brings calm to the chaos. That spark led me to become ordained in 2006, and I’ve been walking alongside couples ever since—helping them create ceremonies that feel honest, magical, and unmistakably them.
For me, officiating isn’t just a service—it’s an honor. I celebrate all love, in all its forms, and take pride in creating inclusive, judgment-free spaces for couples from every background, identity, and lifestyle. Whether you're dreaming of a traditional celebration, a whimsical theme, or something wildly original, I’m here to bring that vision to life.
Let’s create something unforgettable—because your love deserves nothing less.
My Inspiration
What inspires me most is the impact I see in the eyes of every couple who stands before me to say their “I do’s.” Each wedding I have the honor to officiate is a powerful reminder of why I do what I do.
This isn’t just a role—it’s a calling. To be a trusted presence in one of life’s most meaningful moments is something I hold close. My greatest joy comes from helping couples turn their dreams into reality and watching love stories unfold, uniquely and beautifully.
My goal is simple: to be an essential and heartfelt part of your ceremony—bringing calm, clarity, and creativity—while making your vision come to life. Whether your celebration is grand, intimate, traditional, or wildly offbeat, I’m here to help make your day everything you imagined and more.
My Philosophy
When it comes to crafting a wedding ceremony, my philosophy is simple: it’s all about you. I take the time to truly get to know each couple I work with—your story, your vision, your vibe—so that together, we can create a ceremony that feels authentic, meaningful, and deeply personal.
This day isn’t about what Aunt Susie or Uncle Tom thinks it should be. It’s about what you want—your love, your promises, your future. Whether you're planning something elegant and traditional or quirky and unconventional, I’m here to help you celebrate it your way.
Because when two people choose to say “I do,” the ceremony should reflect their hearts—not anyone else’s.
Ready to plan your dream wedding?
Let's collaborate to create a personalized ceremony that reflects your unique love story. Contact me today to discuss your vision and secure your date with Rev. D Weddings in Tulsa or surrounding areas.